New managers tend to make three mistakes with 1-on-1s: they skip them, turn them into status updates, or never explain what the meeting is for. Experienced leaders avoid all three. This post explains why a weekly cadence, set up with a clear purpose and kept weekly, builds the trust that makes everything else possible, including your ability to advocate for your team and your manager’s ability to advocate for you.
Your New Manager Doesn’t Know You Yet — Act Like It
Within the first week of a new manager starting, someone almost always asks about their last raise, their percentage increase, or whether they’re still “in line” for a promotion the old manager mentioned. It’s just one of three things people instinctively do that first week — the other two are easier to miss, because they don’t feel like mistakes while you’re making them.
Before You Manage Anyone, Get to Know Your Team First
You were not hired to manage tasks — you were hired to manage the people who do them. Before you change a single process, sit down with everyone on your new team and ask two different kinds of questions: how they’d describe their day-to-day, and what they actually want out of their future. This post explains why that order matters, what the conversation should sound like, and the one mistake that turns it from trust-building into a quiet performance review.
Nobody Trains New Managers. Here’s What to Do About It.
You just got the promotion. Your peers are genuinely happy for you. You feel ready. Then it hits you: no one actually taught you how to do this job. That’s not a failure on anyone’s part — it’s a skills mismatch built into how most companies grow. This post is the training most new managers never get: four principles, and the business logic behind each one, so the thinking holds up even when your own situation doesn’t match the example.