New managers tend to make three mistakes with 1-on-1s: they skip them, turn them into status updates, or never explain what the meeting is for. Experienced leaders avoid all three. This post explains why a weekly cadence, set up with a clear purpose and kept weekly, builds the trust that makes everything else possible, including your ability to advocate for your team and your manager’s ability to advocate for you.
Your New Manager Doesn’t Know You Yet — Act Like It
Within the first week of a new manager starting, someone almost always asks about their last raise, their percentage increase, or whether they’re still “in line” for a promotion the old manager mentioned. It’s just one of three things people instinctively do that first week — the other two are easier to miss, because they don’t feel like mistakes while you’re making them.
Before You Manage Anyone, Get to Know Your Team First
You were not hired to manage tasks — you were hired to manage the people who do them. Before you change a single process, sit down with everyone on your new team and ask two different kinds of questions: how they’d describe their day-to-day, and what they actually want out of their future. This post explains why that order matters, what the conversation should sound like, and the one mistake that turns it from trust-building into a quiet performance review.
Nobody Trains New Managers. Here’s What to Do About It.
You just got the promotion. Your peers are genuinely happy for you. You feel ready. Then it hits you: no one actually taught you how to do this job. That’s not a failure on anyone’s part — it’s a skills mismatch built into how most companies grow. This post is the training most new managers never get: four principles, and the business logic behind each one, so the thinking holds up even when your own situation doesn’t match the example.
She Stopped Digging. Her Team Started Reporting
Most managers get visibility one of two ways: ask a lot of questions until it starts to look like checking up on people, or don’t ask and find out where things stand too late to redirect. One leader stumbled into a third option. She didn’t change how she managed at all — her team started reporting the right information unprompted, because for the first time, they understood what “the right information” actually was. This isn’t a discipline story. It’s a translation story.
What Managers Taught Me – Including the Ones I Didn’t Respect, (Yet)
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What Managers Taught Me — Including the Ones I Didn’t Respect
The best management lesson I ever received didn’t come from the best manager I ever had.
It came from watching someone do it wrong.
The Manager Who Told You Everything Was Fine
Early in my career, I had a manager who didn’t/couldn’t give real feedback. Not the kind that stings a little and then actually helps.
4 signs you are a great manager or a great leader
Are you a great manager?
What is a great manager? There are plenty of posts on “Managers vs. Bosses” and just as many on “When you know you have a lousy boss.” Today’s post offers a different spin on the topic, and I hope to provide some food for thought about whether you are a manager or want to be one.
As a preface, I generally don’t care for the word “boss.” Whenever someone refers to me personally as “their boss,” I cringe.